Thought of the day : Relationship
What's Love? It seems like the most certain thing you know IF you feel it, but it also seems like the most foreign and strange thing IF you fail to feel it.
What comes along with a perfect relationship? Love? According to Sternberg, the most ultimate type of love consist of 3 essential elements; intimacy, passion and commitment!
Cy always say relationship is always very volatile; almost always seemingly to be changing... When i say change, definitely it involves negative and positive type of change. When its positively changing.. it also means the relationship is growing.
To me, In any relationship, trust is like the core of it! Without it, everything basically couldnt turn out the way we want it to be...
Next, understanding.. how long people need to be together to know each other.. even if you are staying with your family for all your lives, they may not even know you well. Sad to admit that rite?? haizzz
How bout compromising in the relationship? Will it assures eternity??
Hmmm.. there is also a myth saying that "Men are from Mars and Women Are from Venus.." But Do we all know that Earth is in between Mars and Venus? Does that also implies that when men and women are in relationships, they some sort of withdraw themselves from the reality and kinda becoming another person?? Weird but true rite...
Hehee.. I think I have made this whole entry a very like realistic and negative side of relationships where nothing is assured, nothing is gurranteed! and definitely nothing will go beyond what we always hope for.... ETERNITY!!
Nevertheless, of course... there are many many succesful marriage and relationships.. I remember attending a very blessed wedding.. Wow!! If anyone of you were there to witness the way they get married.. Im sure you will wish you own will be like theirs.. They received blessings from their parents, grandparents, friends and relatives.. The groom's father even sang a song for them.. Friends from overseas came back for them.. The whole wedding were wonderful and harmony!! Great.. I hope mine will be like this too!! hahaha...
What comes along with a perfect relationship? Love? According to Sternberg, the most ultimate type of love consist of 3 essential elements; intimacy, passion and commitment!
Cy always say relationship is always very volatile; almost always seemingly to be changing... When i say change, definitely it involves negative and positive type of change. When its positively changing.. it also means the relationship is growing.
To me, In any relationship, trust is like the core of it! Without it, everything basically couldnt turn out the way we want it to be...
Next, understanding.. how long people need to be together to know each other.. even if you are staying with your family for all your lives, they may not even know you well. Sad to admit that rite?? haizzz
How bout compromising in the relationship? Will it assures eternity??
Hmmm.. there is also a myth saying that "Men are from Mars and Women Are from Venus.." But Do we all know that Earth is in between Mars and Venus? Does that also implies that when men and women are in relationships, they some sort of withdraw themselves from the reality and kinda becoming another person?? Weird but true rite...
Hehee.. I think I have made this whole entry a very like realistic and negative side of relationships where nothing is assured, nothing is gurranteed! and definitely nothing will go beyond what we always hope for.... ETERNITY!!
Nevertheless, of course... there are many many succesful marriage and relationships.. I remember attending a very blessed wedding.. Wow!! If anyone of you were there to witness the way they get married.. Im sure you will wish you own will be like theirs.. They received blessings from their parents, grandparents, friends and relatives.. The groom's father even sang a song for them.. Friends from overseas came back for them.. The whole wedding were wonderful and harmony!! Great.. I hope mine will be like this too!! hahaha...
3 Comments:
wow..a deep thought indeed..haha...gone matured?haha...
relationship stuff is unpredictable..so let da fate takes its way
-cg-
By Anonymous, At May 15, 2007 at 10:59 AM
Bluekkkk....!!!!
By Jul_wluek, At May 15, 2007 at 3:57 PM
love? love? i dunno how to describe love.. it's sweet at times.. but also, it can be bitter.. one more thing to include in a relationship, that is compromise.. :)oh???
like u want to eat laksa... he wants to eat chau kuer teow... must sometimes tolerate .. cannot always bosong.. HAHA
By jaecywong*, At May 15, 2007 at 8:32 PM
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